Made To Order 14g Twisty and Delicate Soul Of Grace Sterling Slave Collar


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You will receive a collar like the one pictured. To achieve proper fit, order this piece 1.5 to 2 inches larger than the intended wearer's neck as measured at the level of the Adam's Apple.

This piece is clasped with a special re-purposed body piercing component. The ring of the clasp is surgical stainless steel, the captive bead and drop pendant are silver tone laden with lovely clear glass gemstones. The clasp can be removed and a small padlock substituted when being worn in less public circumstances.

Padlocks sold separately in the padlocks and clasps section of my shop.

This day collar clasps with a 16g stainless steel captive bead ring. This clasp can be opened and closed using one's bare hands, but it is very fiddly so, I highly recommend you obtain a set of ring opening pliers as they will greatly ease the process. The final image on this listing shows what a pair of those looks like. You can find them for sale at lots of online retailers by Googling the phrase, "ring opening pliers"

This item is fine jewelry and is not suitable for use as a bondage tie point. It is made using precious metals which are too soft for even mock struggles in bondage play scenes.

The collar is ideal for formal occasions and/or in public as a discreet symbol of your special relationship.

To assure the ideal fit for this collar please take care in measuring the intended recipients neck as instructed below.

1. Use a cloth measuring tape (tailors or sewers tape measure) for best accuracy.
2. Lay the tape around the neck mid way between the jawline and the hollow of the throat.
A. Don't pull the tape tight but rather ensure it lays flat against the skin all the way around the neck.
B. Don't leave any slack and ensure you don't have a finger or thumb between the tape and the skin.
3. Add 1.5 inches to the resulting measurement to get the proper size to order for this collar.

EX. 13 inch neck at level of Adam's Apple gets plus 1.5" means you should order a 14.5 inch collar.

Each individual collar I craft is a piece of jewelry in its own right. My locking slave collars are made to be public or day collars. These collars are precious jewelry and must not be used for bondage play. Each collar will distort in shape and could also break if used for any purpose other than adornment.

*****Warning use extreme caution when wearing one of these locking day collars. Any item worn around the neck can be a choking/strangulation hazard. Ensure there is a key within reach at all times in case of accident, and never wear this locked while alone.*******

Allow 6-8 weeks for shipping of this item.

All of my made-to-order pieces take 3-4 weeks for me to process prior to
shipping. This is for 4 reasons:

1. I'm nearly always running a queue of 25-35 custom orders and I do each on a first order in first order out basis.

2. I run every aspect of this business all by myself in addition to managing my family. So I have to build in time to handle all the administrative duties as well as making each piece by hand.

3. I also like to maintain the utmost quality and I have learned that rushing things brings on mistakes and frustration for both me and my clients.

4. I order in all the materials for each custom client as needed and since I won't know what I'll need until something is purchased I, too, have to wait for the supplies to arrive.

Shipping speeds after that depend on where you are in the world and on what shipping options you select during the checkout process.

Also items going overseas may be subject to additional customs fees, which I am unable to predict or handle on my end for you. This sometimes means that customs officials will hold the package until they have received the customs duties. In my past experiences the client is rarely notified about this in a timely manner. So you will want to track the package both with the USPS and with your country's postal organization(s). For example with items going to the UK the package tracking switches from the USPS to Royal Mail once in the UK. Many countries in our modern age have several different organizations handling mail, so you may have to check with more than one carrier before you find which one is tracking your package.

All orders ship using the United States Postal Service (USPS.COM) Please note that Priority mail international takes 6-10 days for delivery and tracking is not available. Shipping upgrades for faster speeds and increased tracking are available during the checkout process.

****Overseas Clients, your country may asses import taxes or duties on items shipped to you. Those fees will be your responsibility. I enclose in the package an invoice which matches the item value posted on the customs form.******

My motto is: Beautify the BDSM Worlds, one submissive at a time!

Shipping from United States

Processing time

2-3 weeks

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept returns, exchanges, and cancellations

Just contact me within: 14 days of delivery

Ship items back to me within: 30 days of delivery

Request a cancellation within: 24 hours of purchase

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

The following items can't be returned or exchanged

Because of the nature of these items, unless they arrive damaged or defective, I can't accept returns for:

  • Custom or personalized orders
  • Perishable products (like food or flowers)
  • Digital downloads
  • Intimate items (for health/hygiene reasons)

Conditions of return

Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value.

Questions about your order?

Please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

Frequently Asked Questions

Wholesale availability

My pricing is already maintained at or near wholesale direct to my customer. There are only a few items on which I can offer bulk discounts. Send a message to get more information.

Reviews (1)


Listing: I have to say I am extremely disappointed with this item. As I look at your picture I notice that I don't have the extra to rings that attach the collar to the ring, which may help the ring actually lay flush with my neck. The ring tilts and the jewel doesn't stay centered. Also I followed your advise and ordered an inch bigger then my neck and it's really too big. The entire collar constantly moves and the ring ends up to whatever side I turn my head. The collar sits more on the junction between my neck and my shoulders not around my neck. The jewel itself isn't very secure within the piercing ring and on many occasions the jewel has fallen out. My husband actually didn't want this one but I wanted something dainty and delicate looking.

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