Made To Order The Better Part of Valor Sterling Silver Slave Collar with Sterling Clasp


Only 1 available

A very special sterling slave collar, this one made using heavy 8g half round wire is minimal, smooth, and gleams subtly as you move through your professional work day. Only the wearer and her owner know its true meaning.

You will not receive the exact item pictured here. Instead you will receive one like it that I will make to size. (Note bottom thumbnail is not a picture of this item and is present only to indicate how the clasp works) For proper fit, please order your collar to measure not more than 1/2 inch larger than the intended wearer's neck size, as measured at the level of the Adam's apple. See fifth photo for measuring instructions. Use step 3a for this collar design.

The clasp is a special o style ring with a hidden hinge spring loaded closure. It works a bit like a carabiner but the way it operates is nearly undetectable except up close. Giving you a virtually seamless appearance.

Clasp can be removed and collar can be locked using one of my small novelty padlocks listed separately in my shop. /> Each individual collar I craft is a piece of jewelry in its own right. My locking slave collars are made to be public or day collars. These collars are precious jewelry and must not be used for bondage play. Each collar will distort in shape and could also break if used for any purpose other than adornment.

*****Warning use extreme caution when wearing one of these locking day collars. Any item worn around the neck can be a choking/strangulation hazard. Ensure there is a key within reach at all times in case of accident, and never wear this locked while alone.*******

Allow 6-8 weeks for shipping of this item.

All of my made-to-order pieces take 3-4 weeks for me to process prior to
shipping. This is for 4 reasons:

1. I'm nearly always running a queue of 25-35 custom orders and I do each on a first order in first order out basis.

2. I run every aspect of this business all by myself in addition to managing my family. So I have to build in time to handle all the administrative duties as well as making each piece by hand.

3. I also like to maintain the utmost quality and I have learned that rushing things brings on mistakes and frustration for both me and my clients.

4. I order in all the materials for each custom client as needed and since I won't know what I'll need until something is purchased I, too, have to wait for the supplies to arrive.

Shipping speeds after that depend on where you are in the world and on what shipping options you select during the checkout process.

Also items going overseas may be subject to additional customs fees, which I am unable to predict or handle on my end for you. This sometimes means that customs officials will hold the package until they have received the customs duties. In my past experiences the client is rarely notified about this in a timely manner. So you will want to track the package both with the USPS and with your country's postal organization(s). For example with items going to the UK the package tracking switches from the USPS to Royal Mail once in the UK. Many countries in our modern age have several different organizations handling mail, so you may have to check with more than one carrier before you find which one is tracking your package.

All orders ship using the United States Postal Service (USPS.COM) Please note that Priority mail international takes 6-10 days for delivery and tracking is not available. Shipping upgrades for faster speeds and increased tracking are available during the checkout process.

****Overseas Clients, your country may asses import taxes or duties on items shipped to you. Those fees will be your responsibility. I enclose in the package an invoice which matches the item value posted on the customs form.******

My motto is: Beautify the BDSM Worlds, one submissive at a time!

Shipping from United States

Processing time

2-3 weeks

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept returns, exchanges, and cancellations

Just contact me within: 14 days of delivery

Ship items back to me within: 30 days of delivery

Request a cancellation within: 24 hours of purchase

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

The following items can't be returned or exchanged

Because of the nature of these items, unless they arrive damaged or defective, I can't accept returns for:

  • Custom or personalized orders
  • Perishable products (like food or flowers)
  • Digital downloads
  • Intimate items (for health/hygiene reasons)

Conditions of return

Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value.

Questions about your order?

Please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

Frequently Asked Questions

Wholesale availability

My pricing is already maintained at or near wholesale direct to my customer. There are only a few items on which I can offer bulk discounts. Send a message to get more information.

Great communication, beautifully crafted collar, I would absolutely purchase again in the future.

Beautiful, simple, easy to put on and take off. Thank you!

The collar arrived faster than I had anticipated and was even nicer than what I had expected. Thank you!

Excellent communication and service. Beautiful piece!

I spoke with Diana at Mockingbird and after sharing war stories (literally: I am a Viet Nam vet and she is also a veteran of even longer duration), I told her what I was seeking (a collar to match a bracelet from Tiffany).She suggested this slave collar and a heart shaped lock. She said it would be 3-4 weeks since everything is made by hand. But, she was able to get the materials and shipped within a week. My only regret is that I can only give her five stars...because on a scale of 1-10, she's clearly at least an eleven!! This was my first purchase from her, but will surely not be my last.

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