MADE TO ORDER Knot An Ordinary Kind of Love-12 g Argentium Lockable Shibari Theme Slave Collar


Shipping to United States: Free

This collar is lean, clean and strong. It has a simple over hand knot tied into the heavy 12 gauge Argentium silver. The collar is gently curved to sit at the base of the neck and lay over the collar bones comfortably. For this item you will want to order it with an inner circumference of 1.5 to 2 inches larger than the neck as measured at the level of the Adam's apple.

This is a new series of slave/bondage collars. Over the years that I have made collars, I've been thinking a lot about the art of Shibari and how I might create some BDSM jewelry that would appeal to those who love rope bondage. I have been wanting to create metal pieces that evoke the idea of bondage which would also be discreet symbols of the special kind of intimacy between couples who tie one another up in literal knots.

I've spent a fair amount of time tying knots with wire. I've done macrame, experimented with traditional Celtic and sailors knots in wire. But they didn't have the simplicity I feel is key to making this particular idea work properly. So I came back to the idea of a simple overhand knot, and I believe it works perfectly.

This collar will be made to order. It comes with a small polished nickle padlock and two keys.

Each individual collar I craft is a piece of jewelry in its own right. My locking slave collars are made to be public or day collars. These collars are precious jewelry and must not be used for bondage play. Each collar will distort in shape and could also break if used for any purpose other than adornment.

*****Warning use extreme caution when wearing one of these locking day collars. Any item worn around the neck can be a choking/strangulation hazard. Ensure there is a key within reach at all times in case of accident, and never wear this locked while alone.*******

Allow 6-8 weeks for shipping of this item.

All of my made-to-order pieces take 3-4 weeks for me to process prior to
shipping. This is for 4 reasons:

1. I'm nearly always running a queue of 25-35 custom orders and I do each on a first order in first order out basis.

2. I run every aspect of this business all by myself in addition to managing my family. So I have to build in time to handle all the administrative duties as well as making each piece by hand.

3. I also like to maintain the utmost quality and I have learned that rushing things brings on mistakes and frustration for both me and my clients.

4. I order in all the materials for each custom client as needed and since I won't know what I'll need until something is purchased I, too, have to wait for the supplies to arrive.

Shipping speeds after that depend on where you are in the world and on what shipping options you select during the checkout process.

Also items going overseas may be subject to additional customs fees, which I am unable to predict or handle on my end for you. This sometimes means that customs officials will hold the package until they have received the customs duties. In my past experiences the client is rarely notified about this in a timely manner. So you will want to track the package both with the USPS and with your country's postal organization(s). For example with items going to the UK the package tracking switches from the USPS to Royal Mail once in the UK. Many countries in our modern age have several different organizations handling mail, so you may have to check with more than one carrier before you find which one is tracking your package.

All orders ship using the United States Postal Service (USPS.COM) Please note that Priority mail international takes 6-10 days for delivery and tracking is not available. Shipping upgrades for faster speeds and increased tracking are available during the checkout process.

****Overseas Clients, your country may asses import taxes or duties on items shipped to you. Those fees will be your responsibility. I enclose in the package an invoice which matches the item value posted on the customs form.******

My motto is: Beautify the BDSM Worlds, one submissive at a time!

Shipping from United States

Processing time

2-3 weeks

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept returns, exchanges, and cancellations

Just contact me within: 14 days of delivery

Ship items back to me within: 30 days of delivery

Request a cancellation within: 24 hours of purchase

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

The following items can't be returned or exchanged

Because of the nature of these items, unless they arrive damaged or defective, I can't accept returns for:

  • Custom or personalized orders
  • Perishable products (like food or flowers)
  • Digital downloads
  • Intimate items (for health/hygiene reasons)

Conditions of return

Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value.

Questions about your order?

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Wholesale availability

My pricing is already maintained at or near wholesale direct to my customer. There are only a few items on which I can offer bulk discounts. Send a message to get more information.

Reviews (4)


I haven’t gifted this to our girl yet but it’s simplistically elegant and a lovely piece, just what we wanted! **Update: Our girl looked even more lovely with this piece around her neck, we were all happy with the purchase.

Beautiful workmanship and a beautiful collar. Comfortable, lightweight but not fragile, elegant, and a whole lot more. I love it. Wear it every day. Thank you!

Thank you so much!! just received the collar in the mail. My fiancé loves the collar. I bought it as a wedding present for her and it fits and looks perfect on her. I'm attaching a picture of her wearing it. Had to crop it a bit so her face wasn't showing, so it's a little out of focus. Thanks again for a great product!!!

Beautiful! Lovely piece that fits perfectly! Will be back for more soon!

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