The Better Part of Valor: Sterling Silver Slave Collar with Sterling Clasp (Made To Order)

$160.00

Shipping to United States: Free

A very special sterling slave collar, this one made using heavy 8g half round wire is minimal, smooth, and gleams subtly as you move through your professional work day. Only the wearer and her owner know its true meaning.

You will not receive the exact item pictured here. Instead you will receive one like it that I will make to size. (Note bottom thumbnail is not a picture of this item and is present only to indicate how the clasp works) For proper fit, please order your collar to measure not more than 1/2 inch larger than the intended wearer's neck size, as measured at the level of the Adam's apple. See fifth photo for measuring instructions. Use step 3a for this collar design.

The clasp is a special o style ring with a hidden hinge spring loaded closure. It works a bit like a carabiner, but the way it operates is nearly undetectable except up close; this grants a virtually seamless appearance.

Clasp can be removed and collar can be locked using one of my small novelty padlocks listed separately in my shop. https://www.etsy.com/shop/MockingbirdLaneWire?section_id=11395535&ref=shopsection_leftnav_9

Each individual collar I craft is a piece of jewelry in its own right. My locking slave collars are made to be public or day collars. These collars are precious jewelry and must not be used for bondage play. Each collar will distort in shape and possibly break if used for any purpose other than adornment.

*****Warning: use extreme caution when wearing one of these locking day collars. Any item worn around the neck can be a choking/strangulation hazard. Ensure there is a key within reach at all times in case of accident, and never wear this locked while alone.

Allow 5-8 weeks for receipt of this item.
All of my made-to-order pieces take 3-4 weeks for me to process prior to shipping. This is for 4 reasons:
1. I'm nearly always running a queue of 25-35 custom orders and I do each on a first order in first order out basis.
2. I run every aspect of this business all by myself in addition to managing my family. So I have to build in time to handle all the administrative duties as well as making each piece by hand.
3. I also like to maintain the utmost quality and I have learned that rushing things brings on mistakes and frustration for both me and my clients.
4. I order in all the materials for each custom client as needed, and since I won't know what I'll need until something is purchased I, too, have to wait for the supplies to arrive.
Shipping speeds after that depend on where you are in the world and on what shipping options you select during the checkout process.


All orders ship using the United States Postal Service (USPS.COM) Please note that tracking on the USPS website switches to your country's main postal service's website once the item leaves the US customs port of call. Also, shipping upgrades for faster speeds and increased tracking are available during the checkout process.
****Overseas Clients, your country may assess import taxes or duties on items shipped to you. Those fees will be your responsibility. Enclosed in the package is an invoice, which matches the item value posted on the customs form.****
I have done my best to photograph each item accurately portray its colors, however computer screens, mobile devices, and browsers interpret colors differently, so please allow for these discrepancies.

Shipping from United States

Processing time

2-3 weeks

Customs and import taxes

Buyers are responsible for any customs and import taxes that may apply. I'm not responsible for delays due to customs.

Payment Options

Secure options
  • Accepts Etsy gift cards

Returns & Exchanges

I gladly accept returns, exchanges, and cancellations

Just contact me within: 14 days of delivery

Ship items back to me within: 30 days of delivery

Request a cancellation within: 24 hours of purchase

But please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

The following items can't be returned or exchanged

Because of the nature of these items, unless they arrive damaged or defective, I can't accept returns for:

  • Custom or personalized orders
  • Perishable products (like food or flowers)
  • Digital downloads
  • Intimate items (for health/hygiene reasons)

Conditions of return

Buyers are responsible for return shipping costs. If the item is not returned in its original condition, the buyer is responsible for any loss in value.

Questions about your order?

Please contact me if you have any problems with your order.

Frequently Asked Questions

Wholesale availability

My pricing is already maintained at or near wholesale direct to my customer. There are only a few items on which I can offer bulk discounts. Send a message to get more information.

Super comfortable and light. Isn't too delicate or too bulky.


Great communication, beautifully crafted collar, I would absolutely purchase again in the future.


Beautiful, simple, easy to put on and take off. Thank you!


The collar arrived faster than I had anticipated and was even nicer than what I had expected. Thank you!


Excellent communication and service. Beautiful piece!


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